Being kind in this world is thought as a sign of weakness. People think that others will take advantage of being nice. Psychologically it will affect when people are too kind. Science says that you may develop expectations, stress and addictive behavior when you care too much about people. People say when you are kind and give too much you may attract the wrong kind of people and you forget to take care of yourself. So is it right to be kind?

Yes, it is right to be kind, it is not the sign of weakness, it is the sign of courage. If you have to choose between, what is right and kind, Choose to be kind. The critical factor for being kind and not to be used by people, you should have limits. Before being generous with other people, you should love yourself and very cautious with others. The best way to find right people is to test them how they behave with other people who are not of any use to them. Being kind is always possible but what matters is not getting used by others.

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